10 Tips for Going to Events Alone

Going to events alone can be an intimidating but rewarding thing to do. We compiled this list to make it less frightening and help you feel more confident. Remember, most people attend events hoping to connect with new people, and many attend alone. You’re not the only one!

1. Choose Events That Interest You
   Pick something you’re genuinely excited about. It is easier to start conversations and engage when the activity or topic resonates with you.
2. Plan Ahead
   Check the event schedule, location, and logistics to feel more prepared and confident.
3. Set a Goal
   Decide what you want to achieve from the event: meeting new people, learning something new, being in a queer space, or just enjoying yourself.
4. Share Your Location with Friends
   For safety, let friends know you’re attending the event alone and share your location so they’re aware of your whereabouts.
5. Arrive Early
   Arriving early to an event lets you get comfortable, familiarize yourself with the space, and start conversations before things get busy.
6. Bring a Conversation Starter
   Wear something unique, like a pin, tote bag, or shirt that reflects your interests. It can serve as a great icebreaker.
7. Engage with Event Hosts
   Introduce yourself to the organizers or staff—they’re usually friendly and can connect you with others.
8. Join Group Activities
   Look for interactive parts of the event, such as workshops, games, or discussions, that naturally encourage mingling.
9. Take Breaks When Needed
   It’s okay to step away and recharge. Find a quiet spot or take a quick phone break to reset.
10. Celebrate Your Courage
    Attending an event solo can feel daunting, but it’s also empowering. Reflect on your experience and what you gained from it.